I can't believe I fell for it again. The ex-husband is nice to me once and by nice I mean something as simple as being friendly or respectful and I think he's changed and done with the games. I fell for it again. Kids are with me Xmas eve till the afternoon Xmas day, then they go with their dad. Our Xmas is out of town, about an hours drive. Well Ray asked that I have the kids back by 1:00 o'clock today. No problem right! Then he calls and says don't rush to be right on time the roads might be slippery. So here I am thinking ahhhhhhh that so nice his concern. Ya right. The kids and I get back here by 1:45 and he doesn't answer his home phone, cell phone, nothing. Only shows up at 6:30 to pick up the kids. What an asshole. So we spent Xmas day afternoon waiting for a phone call or a knock on the door instead of being with family. My son knows his dad an asshole and he's learnt not to expect much from him, but my daughter she still gets so sad with every let down. She was shedding tears most of the afternoon. Then just minutes ago I get a phone call, my daughter tell me her and her brother got a laptop for xmas...so all of a sudden he's a hero again. I can't stand it, I hate him so much, I can't wait for the kids to be real with him and tell him what they think. I'm just fuming I'm so pissed.